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- 12/12/13--12:54: _kos katalogue: secr...
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- 05/05/13--22:28: this is my TTP diary (THANK the police!)
- 05/25/13--16:36: today i saved a life (written yesterday)
- 06/11/13--22:33: UPDATE ON COLORADO BURNING: any one heard from nurse kelley?
- 07/11/13--23:18: why i love show jumping! horseMANship at his best!
- 07/12/13--14:38: s.f. shooting just occurred
- 07/12/13--23:29: two lives lost, one life saved today...
- 07/14/13--03:04: update on jewelry mart murders
- 08/03/13--00:31: just cuz... here's patches, the horse
- 08/19/13--01:01: regarding new rules and fundraisers
- 09/24/13--13:30: when it rains... monsoon season.
- 09/25/13--02:48: can't sleep.
- 09/26/13--01:11: owie!
- 10/02/13--18:24: one good thing about being in hospital
- 12/02/13--17:01: The Grieving Room: i thought i would be crying
- 12/11/13--10:30: kos katalogue blogathon: go ORANGE for the holidays!
- 12/12/13--06:09: Kos Katalogue: secret santa time!
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- 12/13/13--15:48: Secret Santa needs ELVES!
- 12/18/13--12:09: secret santa's been busy making a list... BUT..
- 12/18/13--21:36: Secret Santa for Kitsap River and Remembrance!
- 12/21/13--14:39: Running out of TIME here! Secret Santa needs YOU!
- 12/23/13--07:45: when i was a child -- i remember christmas ...
- 12/23/13--20:13: why remembrance? why kitsap? why aji? why sara and ann?
- 12/24/13--10:00: o'henry's "gift of the magi"
- 01/24/14--19:50: da kat did it...
- 03/02/14--03:03: dadblastit! now i have to learn all over again!
- 03/27/14--12:21: today would have been mom's 97 birthday
- 04/27/14--12:35: unearthing e.t. in the desert!
- 05/09/14--11:13: Ever had a pup stolen? lost? BEWARE of "rescue" groups!
- 05/10/14--18:56: fineena needs our help to put a roof over her head!
- 05/11/14--15:30: piper's story continues ...
- 05/13/14--06:15: piper's story continues: when wisdom of solomon is not enough
- 05/14/14--16:12: A quick GOOD NEWS! Fineena is in her new home!
- 05/21/14--12:21: quick note: if anyone wants anything from my etsy shop, do it today!
- 05/30/14--11:52: piper's fund - the auction to help bring piper home!
- 08/01/14--14:02: How much do you love your pet? Then you better read this!
- 09/17/14--16:07: Four Months and Counting - Piper's Case Moves to the Courtroom
- 10/29/14--20:27: giants win series 3-2!
kron4 news (san francisco) tonite announced when president obama signed the sequester into existence... then they actually discussed what was going on - and ... to my shock and amazement, after some decent explanation, the anchor stated that neither the president or congress was going to change this until the people started to react.
THEN... (are you ready) the anchor stated this was an attempt by the republicans to get rid of all the programs of the new deal that they had hated - the safety net, social services, etc.!
i'm sorry i don't have this verbatim - my jaw was so far on the floor that i didn't have the computer on or fingers ready to transcribe!
our friend aitchdee translated a diary from sam today about the hard timez momma is havin with the GFM (Grumpy Faced Man). well, sam haz happiez cuz momma not quite so panicked that we run risk of getting our toesies trod on - shez not pacing quite as earlier todai -
but she still haz those worried wrinkles on her face and that makes OUR headz tilt and wrinkle then our noez wrinkle and we worriez too! so i bin sittin here in da graz tinkin what to do. i wuz gonna try barking but afraid GFM come back and yell at momma. so i will try whut sam did. edrie sez she will triez to tranzlate since she is whisperer - but i had to still yell to get her to listen sometiemz. not her fault. she somewhut deaf. so here goez...
i gotta run out the doggie door - i hearz edrie in mr tee's 'bertible outside now!- but meet me under the orange tree an we'll tell you more of what mom's trying to fix for us to be safe!
check it out!
be sure to download this beta application and try it out - it is up now and will only be available for a very short time - try out all the new features!
so, without further ado... go beneath the squiggle and try...
when a kossack is in trouble, this community is there. this is a family - we have our squabbles, our disagreements, our hair-pulling contests, but when push comes to shove, kossacks are there for one another.
near the end of march, kossacks were there to help one of our own artists, fineena, when she faced losing her apartment and ending up on the street with her beautiful two woozles, sam and julia.
we were successful in keeping the doghouse full for march - but april is now here and the GFM (grumpy faced man) is at it again, this time, demanding an "inspection" of the apartment as a ruse to collect the rent on monday.
fortunately, fineena has agile fingers and has added new scarves to her etsy shop so there are some beautiful ones to go around for those who missed out in march - and, if your loved one has a special day coming up, fineena now is offering a gift certificate to let your beloved (even if it is yourself) pick from a future design or customize the colors!
and, with netroots nation coming up - wouldn't it be great to be seen bedecked by one of these beautiful creations? hey, here in northern california, they are PERFECT for that sudden dip in temperature when the sun goes down!
you'll see some of the most fashionista kossacks wearing them! and her work is truly art!
heck, these are even "guy things" - here in the conservative world of orange!
okay - that is the light stuff - now for the serious - please come below the squiggle - it really IS important...
our own jekyllandhyde put this together to help spread the word about fineena's beautiful scarves - i was going to add it to THIS diary but decided it should stand on it's own, as well! and, to update, we're at $581 right now - she has to have $800 tomorrow and then we can work on the car and a bit of breathing room.
thanks, everyone - this community is the greatest!
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this afternoon, as we were moving stuff around the garage where i'm staying, my friend and i heard the tell-tale "POP POP POP POP - POPPOPPOPPOPPOPPOP POPPOPPOP"
phone out, 911 called and reported - multiple shots fired - about a block away off gloria way and bay... two distinct guns... definitely shots... yes, toward bay. name? edrie
"we'll get someone over there right away" THANK you!
more beneath the casings...
update - 5:22 am: funny how hard it is to sleep when almost being robbed at gunpoint. still wide awake 7 1/2 hrs later. not good. not good at all. might as well start to fix typos...
came home late from the barn tonite - stopped by the grocery to wander and pick to walk off the sad news that one of the dressage olympians and a well-respected judge and rider had died recently. it upset me for this is where my boys lived until i came off sani and broke my back. (my fault - long story - but MY fault!)
anyway, was saddened by her passing, so i stopped in the store to wander and kill a bit of time.
when i got home, it was nearly 10pm and, as per usual, two of the housemates (who should never want to own a car in new york because ny'ers are brutal on parking space hogs) had taken up three spaces, as usual. i groused and snarled and drove to the end of the block to make a u-turn at the 4-way stop about 100 yds down from the house. there was a car sitting at the stop sign when i pulled up.
i stopped and waited for him to pass through the intersection, but he just SAT there. and sat. and sat. finally, i blew my horn and blew it again and he drove slowly through the intersection. i did my u'ie and pulled around to find the space opposite the house was just a WEE bit to small for me to park without using braille - and, already upset, i didn't want to chance taking out my frustrations on two innocent bumpers.
follow me (er... bad choice of words, as you'll see) over the jump.
i saved a snake today (well, actually yesterday). he was trapped in fine plastic meshing used to discourage birds from “stealing” berries from the trees, although i must wonder if the birds really understand the concept of “stealing” what is freely grown in their open world. it is the human that places the boundaries that separate the birds from their natural food source, not them.
but, i digress...
back to the snake in trouble. the gardener left the extra black netting on the ground under the open deck - it was almost invisible until the poor creature slithered into the tangled tiny mesh. once in, the mesh caught on the scaley covering of the creature and became firmly locked around his body. all he could do was go forward into the unknown.
as he pushed forward to try to disentangle himself from his now unwise choice, he found that the mesh was ever more convoluted, leaving him with fewer and few options but to push forward to try to find an exit at the other end of his journey.
she's in the line of fire again - the black forest, colorado fire... and i'm worried.
this fast moving fire is right in her neck of the woods. i believe it is technically called the falcon fire - here is more info from the denver post
how about joining me in saying a prayer, blessing, wish, hope, anything you do and directing them in the direction of our beloved nurse kelley!
not much more to say - just hoping for everyone to hold her close and all the folks in that area!
this is one of the best videos of naked jumping i've ever seen - actually, it is the ONLY naked jumping i've ever seen!
enjoy, folks - and notice that this competitor has an awesome seat! ;)
multiple shots fired near 888 brannan - the address is 840 brannan - the rei store. multiple ambulances sent.
i was SUPPOSED to be at brannan right now. not much news out yet - just multiple people shot at 2:30 something in the afternoon.
officers searching for someone...
fate has an ironic way of giving and taking and giving again...
the shooting at victoga's that took the life of two women who worked there - two who i've known and talked to and shopped with for many years is such a horrific tragedy. the other injured man, still don't know if he is from victoga, but one news report indicates yes, is critical. he has my prayers and healing wishes for comfort from the pain and loss of today's tragedy.
i was supposed to be there today - within feet of victoga's - and had plans to go over and say hi and show them the "new" bracelet i found at a thrift shop and get it valued. now that seems so trivial... but i would have been in that store about the time of the shooting - or across the hall.
these people are special people - these are my "regular" people - the ones i've gone to for many years to find the special pieces that fit special people.
when the news broke that there was a shooting, my first thought was of the giftcenter/jewelrymart and said a quick prayer that everyone would be okay. that was not to be.
the reason i wasn't there was another twist of fate. sani is overdue for his shoes - couldn't get the coordination between my vet and farrier to check his feet and trim and change his shoes during his long healing from laminitis. i tried repeatedly to call my farrier but kept getting voice mail and then the voice mailbox was full - that is why i didn't go into the city today.
when i finally closed the computer and left for the barn, i called richard again and this time got through... more fate after the fold...
i am at a loss for words...
the suspect has been identified as barry white, jr, 23 yrs old, of antioch.
he had been in the store the day prior (so he knew the layout of the vault).
he had a rifle in his truck
he is suing the city of antioch over alleged "civil rights violations" in a case that has been stayed pending the outcome of the 69 felonies with which is is currently charged on other unrelated charges. something tells me now that this "lawsuit" is going nowhere!
those who "support" him made this astounding statement on their blog tonite:
This is not a coincidence. The police worked with snitch/ neighborhood watch types known as "gang stalking groups" to harass the shooter day and night until he had a breakdown and went postal. This is a story literally exploding across the country.so, because of this Fuck the Police mantra, two innocent women, Khin Min, 35 years old and Lini Lim, 51, are dead and the owner is in critical condition? for WHAT! because this little gangbanger felt "persecuted"? what had they EVER done to HIM? oh. i get it.
Continue reading at NowPublic.com: SF Shooter Barry White Gang Stalked After Suing Antioch Police? | NowPublic News Coverage http://www.nowpublic.com/...
easy targets. pick people who can't fight back. be a BIG man to your "buddies" because you went "postal". cuz, FTP, you know - and all that...
i am SO angry right now!
hope y'all enjoy! sani won't fit in tee's 'bertible... so i won't show him this!
i've thought long and hard about whether or not to write this diary. it is personal to me. very personal.
some on this site object strenuously when kossacks who are facing real trouble have fundraisers done to help them. i've contributed to those in need and have been in need, myself, so i have a rather unique perspective to offer.
first, let me state up front that i do not understand those who want to prohibit others from extending a helping hand to those in need. i really don't understand what it "costs" someone who disapproves (and, yes, it is a judgement being made) of those who offer to help.
this diary is an attempt to understand why coming to the aid of another person is so upsetting to some on the site - upsetting to the point that those who object would rather see someone suffer rather than have another lend a helping hand.
i'm open to learning why those feelings exist - and i'm here to state that the community of users here who come to the aid of those in need are one of the reasons i'm here - whether it is a political candidate, someone who needs words of encouragement and support during illness, loss, pain - or financially.
if you will, please hear me out across the orange divide.
12:09 PM PT: .LATEST INFORMATION: still conflicting reports coming from d.c. the mayor said at least 12 dead and there may still be another suspect on the loose. the media was reporting that two additional suspects were being sought. one has been located and is not involved in the shooting. this is from five minutes ago...President Obama's address regarding the naval yard shooting:
Mayor gray addressing media now:
thanking first responders and all who came to deal with horrific tragedy.
regarding two other suspects - one has been talked to and ruled out. another was identified as wearing drab olive uniform - still looking for him to determine if any involvement.
do not yet know what the motive is - no reason to suspect terrorism, but not ruled out.
13 fatalities (including shooter) - additional victim has died at the hospital. no identities until families are notified.
telling people who live in the area to stay out of the area - especially since they are trying to rule out the still unidentified man.
washington nationals baseball game is postponed.
chief laneir (sp?) asking people to stay as far away from the area but 295, 395 and 695 opened. m st around nascar closed and asking people to stay away.
asking businesses and residences to still shelter in place. hope in the next couple of hours whether they can conclusively say that all suspects are accounted for.
fbi will release information on shooter, aaron alexis. investigation is continuing about him.
valerie parlave (fbi) id'd aaron alexis of ft worth - picture on website on fbi.gov and they are asking people with information about him to contact them.
evidence response team is now processing the scene and will be running down every lead. asking the public to look at pictures and contact fbi with any information - nothing too small.
the mayor just said that there are a dozen or more additional victims who are injured beyond the 13 who have died.
senate is on lockdown - house not because they are not in session.
breaking right now on abc news, there is a shelter in place for the navy yard and base due to an active shooter. the early reports are that 1 to 3 people are injured - no word on the extent of those injuries.
the base is being searched by armed patrols and the shelter in place is effective now.
more when it is available.
here are links to the news story...
The U.S. Navy said 3 shots were fired inside the headquarter building where approximately 3,000 people work.updates below the fold...
Police say they are now looking for an active shooter on the base.
The Washington Navy Yard says on its website that it's the Navy's oldest shore establishment. It's home to the chief of Naval Operations and is also headquarters for the Naval Historical Center and numerous naval commands.
this is a update to sani and his bout with laminitis and for me, too - and the next storm blowing through. fortunately, he is not the one "directly" affected. indirectly, yes, because it impacts my being able to have funds necessary to cover his current vet bills and past board. this awesome community raised half of what i owed one and a half month ago and i've been hoping to bring in the rest PLUS the now two months extra i owe (would LOVE a calendar that has a snooze button on it!)
the good news - sani is now 2/3 new feet! his farrier and vet are miracle workers. MOST horses that are as severely laminitic as sani - with undiagnosed and untreated cushings disease (like with people, dogs, etc., this is a tumor on the pituitary) don't survive. it CAN be controlled in animals with pergolide when caught in time - the drug slows the growth of the tumor and brings the horses back to near normal. one of sani's
"mares" at the barn has been on pergolide for 10 years and at nearly 30, she is in great shape!
laminitis is a side effect of the cushings and his insulin resistance. yes, now i have a horse with insulin issues as i had mr tee, my precious sammy, who was a 2x a day insulin boy with full fledged diabetes. i cooked for him. for sani, i have to search for special hay and special feed.
i do this all in love for he is so worth it!
we were on our way to catching up - then i've been feeling punk this last week - not doing much with the jewelry making - just didn't feel good.
then, yesterday morning, about 6:25, i woke up out of a dead sleep with the most excrutiating pain in my right below my diaphram that migrated to my midback and upper shoulders. i felt like i was in the grip of a giant crab intent on squeezing harder!
the pain was blinding - i hobbled to the bathroom and tried to "will it" away. my willpower failed me bigtime!
in minutes, i was drenched in sweat to the point i looked like i'd just stepped out of the shower. not good. not good at all!
then the weakness from my left shoulder region so i was now doubly worried. the first thought orginally flashing through my head was "GALL BLADDER" when this happened, but since my dad died in less than a minute of feeling discomfort when having his heart attack, i decided that the e.r. was my destination - hopefully not my final one!
ekgs and ultrasounds and seems my gall bladder is trying to grow a mountain - tons of little pepples! doc craig was surprised i'd never had an attack prior to this! guess i'm really just lucky!
so, it was so severe that my new surgeon scheduled me for surgery on wednesday! that's right - tomorrow!
yep - i go under the knife in less than 48 hours from the first attack! (24 hrs from now) recovery time is approx two weeks. sigh...
sigh. i can't win sometimes.... but i'm not feeling sorry for myself. i STILL have to raise the board balance. and, at least, i know i'll be home to do the work since i'll not be doing any heavy lifting for the next two to three weeks!
recovery time is perfect - sani will be ready to go back to work in a month - and hopefully, sani will be healthy and ready to ride by then! YAY!!! at least this happened BEFORE we got under saddle again. in the meantime, i'll be loading my koskatalogue with lots of great gifts for christmas and starting a gofundme page with rewards for jewelry yet unmade!
so - the good; sani's feet, the bad; gall bladder, the ugly, barn is pressing for the balance i owe and i've now got medical stuff to boot.
thank god for medicare and kaiser - at least, i am covered for most and thanks to being old, i don't have to try to "tough it out" because i can't afford to see the doctor.
we need medicare for all. period!
now, one last little plea - anyone wanna go shopping?
koskatalogue lists my etsy shop here.
if you want to order something special not on the katalogue, you can through contacting me and using paypal (mine is edrie dot blackwelder at paypal dot com)
or you can go to gofundme to see what i'm offering custom at custom prices.
and, please say a little prayer, send energy, think of me at 1:30 tomorrow (wednesday) - at least this is laproscopic...general anesthesia, though. i'll be incoherently home tomorrow nite, so no promises i'll be online. (hah - i'll be here - incoherent but here! i'm ADDICTED!!!)
too busy pretending i'm not worried about this afternoon.
bigfish games only work for so long.
anybody got any spare sheep?
i'm still here alive but not kickin'
took out my gall bladder - it was FULL of large stones! my doc took pictures fr me. wow, oh wow!
worst part was my back spasming where i fractured it in 2004. finally go it to give wit GOOD DRUGS!!!
felt like mr tee on morphine for his spleenectmy.
the good news is that i'm okay - ton of stones now gone. when the drain is removed, i can concentrate on healing - at least, physically. the other stuff about my mom - will, thats gonna take much longer - but at least, i've got it finally in the courts.
just wanted to update from yesterday... going to try to slee now.
is that i could watch the shutdown travesty unfold round the clock. and i have.
i'm back, sorta.
well, i'm still in hospital - been here since monday. tried to get message out but phone is not working in here - messages don't send. calls, intermittent.
the peace and quiet (aside from cspan) has been good.
on top of everything else - getting home is getting to be a big fucking deal. getting my stuff out of 88 yr old woman's house and back to mine has been complicated - to the point i'm ready to leave hospital and go move sh*t myself tomorrow - i NEED my effin' jewelry - if i don't make up for lost time, i lose much more than my sanity.
i missed you folks.
almost dying will do that to ya.
below the fold is the whine - you don't have to read if you're not in the mood - i'm needing to vent as much as i dare at the moment.
i wanted to personally thank the blogathon for bringing us to the attention of the community. thanks to remembrance, i got to buy sani food this week and keep my car insured.
i may be off the grid for a bit, though, my phone bill is due tomorrow and i've three more major bills coming due that got put off due to the trip to n.c. as some of you know, these last few months have been tumultous - the left over loss of the majority of the use of my left hand due to an inept physical therapist who delayed starting treatment after my hand surgery last december (she waited a full month because, in her own words, "i'm really BOOKED!"). that left enough time for severe scar tissue to set in - and it is only now that i have partial use of my hand back ... and another procedure scheduled for jan 6 where, under nerve block, my surgeon will force my fingers to bend through the scarring. that may or may not work but physical therapy THIS time starts on jan 7 - if not, then i get to go under the knife again to cut the tendons loose from the ligaments that are blocked with the scarring.
then, my room mate took a job with her friend as a "wildlife trapper" - and she kills what she catches. this is against EVERYTHING that i have done in my life in wildlife rehabilitation... so i fled the room i was forced to take in her house when i lost my cottage last december (2012) due to mom's will not being resolved. (little did i know then what was to come...)
ao, in july, after multiple askings from a friend's 88 yr old mom, i moved into her condo to stay until my lawyer was able to get mom's estate resolved. (yes, we had to go there - seems my sister closed probate over two years ago without ever showing me the will SHE wrote and signed and presented to the court... more on that down the road - but, folks, HAVE a NEUTRAL arbitrator on ALL wills - NOT a family member as an executrix/or)
more below the squiggle... if you are interested in the trials and tribulations that will eventually make their way into a book/script.
on october 25th of this year i flew home for the last time to mom's house.
it was my last home with my parents - i was a freshman in college when they bought their dream home - a beautiful ranch style house made of "old brick". one of three on the block, the yard was open and big and filled with promise and hope.
this three bedroom, two bath home was the culmination of my parents' determination to put my sister and i through college - doing so by moving us into a duplex that was one of the first "co-ops" in charlotte - we lived cramped and in far too close contact for my sister and myself, sharing one bedroom while mom and dad had the other. my sister left for grad school when mom and dad found the beautiful promise of a new life.
as the second owner of this home, it felt like brand new - rich wood floors and paneling in the den, wood floors throughout... and those bay windows in the den overlooking the yard that would have dad's small garden and his beloved gas grill. in the worst weather, dad would be there with his umbrella happily grilling to perfection... the rain didn't matter.
after dad died in 1983, mom stayed for another 28 years - never leaving their home. she lived alone in her home with determination. i had moved away after grad school to take a teaching position in new england... one that lasted six months before i made the dash for freedom in new york city.
my older sister stayed in charlotte, teaching first at our alma mater, then teaching at the local community college until she retired. i used to think our relationship was rocky due to the close proximity and inability to escape into our own private spaces in the early years in the duplex, but nothing changed as we aged. we had periodic episodes where we got along - when she came to ny to visit and go to special events, but i realized that i was little more than a free hotel room. ours relationship seemed better at a distance, as did my relationship with mom.
when i moved to california in 1993, it was after reagan killed the arts and richard miller killed off wang labs. i moved west for work - not realizing that it's true about hotel california - you can check in but you can never leave. once here, i didn't have the funds to make the 3000 mile trek back.
come with me on the journey home for the last time...
hi, all! it's time for the december blogathon for all of us who love to make beautiful things and share them with our friends!
i finally got all but one of my orders in the mail - that one is almost done! now, it's time to do the final christmas push for EdriesShop on etsy! i've gotten a new supply of gorgeous pearls and stones in and am working my fingers to the bone to get them online and available to you all!
here is the work in progress: akoya salt water pearls in gold with matching earrings! the knotting begins tonite!
this time, i'm adding a special discount (type in orange) just for my orange family - you all have stood by me when i couldn't stand alone, so i'm passing it back to you!
i work close to margin, but for all you who find a treasure you can't resist, if you type in "orange", it will take off 15% of the price!
i'll be adding new items for the rest of the week - and i can custom design something for you now that i'm restocked on some basic findings!
i've added the beautiful jade hoops again - the last i can get these stones for another 5-6 months (they are on a slow boat from china... :^( ... so i bought out my special supplier who adds love to everything before it leaves HER store!
come below the fold with me and i'll show you what's up and what's coming up!
last year, something truly wonderful happened! i was the recipient of the most wondrous gift! this community, through this diary, gave me a secret santa gift of a portrait of my beloved mr tee- painted by the amazing kossack david woodward. he captured the true spirit of my precious boy!
this treasure is one of the most special gifts i've ever received! so, in that spirit, i'd like to start this year's "secret santa" gift giving for our kos kommunity!
if you know of someone you would like to surprise with a gift from our wonderful artists here on this site, this is the time and place to let us know! i know we're later than usual getting started, but i know that we can do this!
through the comments in the diaries of the artists on this site, we find comments like this one...
All I can do at the moment is T & R (6+ / 0-)well, i pulled that necklace immediately and have it set aside - and would like to offer it up for a secret santa gift from all of us to our special kitsap...
but my T & R is for both myself and my beloved sister Aji. Life has gotten in the way of her being online and it will be for a while, time unknown, so she asked me to let you know.
I still have my eye on that petrified wood necklace if it's still around when I can afford it. The earrings are gorgeous but I tend not to wear earrings much. Necklaces, yes. In fact, I just wore the green-stone necklace Charles got me from Edrie last year to an important campaign function for my state senator. It is quite striking and got a lot of compliments, and there's a warmth to the stone that I can't quite explain.
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if anyone else has had someone admire something special in their shop, this is a time to post it - or if someone remembers someone admiring something - please either messaage me or post in the comments and let's get this sleigh on the move! come beneath the fold for more information on previous gifts and diaries - this year, aji and sara r aren't able to do the monitoring - so i've volunteered...
here is sara r's last year's diary - please go visit and let me know if you've had a visitor to your shop or you have someone you would like to help gift that special item! your gift is a gift times two - it helps our artists AND it is a permanent reminder of how much of a family we really are!
we don't have much time so i'm posting this quickly - if i've left anything out, please forgive me!
secret santa is busy this year making his list and checking it twice!
on that list, so far, we have the following kossacks:
JUST starting out so $66 is needed to put this under the tree!
have you someone you would like to see gifted with something special from the community artisans? are YOU hoping for that special work of art? well, now's the time to speak up!
here are just SOME of the shops that are available - - and if you are an artisan and your shop is missing, please add it to the comments and we'll put it in the next secret santa diary!
right now, there are two giftings in the works:
who would you like to add to this list and from what kos katalogue artist?
kitsap river - petrified wood necklace - $175 - balance remaining, $150
Ooooh - scarf by fineena $ 66
hi, all - it's me again from the north pole (in freezing california)! this is your update for the secret santa monologues - uh - dialogues? we're pushing the clock here, working our fingers to the bone typing to get these special gifts set up and ready to be delivered by little reindeer (or, with the spirit of mr tee guiding them, by santa's little helpers - sani and lyublyu!)
lyublyu, elf in training!
there are many ways for elves to help - if you have a spare dollar or two - they add up quickly. if you are struggling to keep the lights on right now, even a tip and rec are worth a lot since it keeps these diaries in the community eye. a kind word, a special request (for something you've always admired in someone's shop, sharing makes a difference - these things ALL help!
right now, we have the following secret santa gifts on the worktable:
our own kitsap river is dreaming of very old things - a necklace made of petrified wood! - balance needed $150 (contact edrie)i'll post the most recent totals so far later tonite - but here's what we know so far:
Ooooh wants a scarf to keep her warm on the chilly nights! balance needed $ 46 (contact fineena)
Sara r and Ann are still hoping to find aji's beautiful necklaces under their tree! - balance needed Necklace for Winglion (Ann R): $180+ needed
2 necklaces for SaraR: $500+ needed (contact aji)
and spirit of life dreams of looking at one of markos the werelynx's beautiful paintings! $15 - $350 (contact markos the werelynx)
to make a donation toward these secret santas, you can kosmail the artist (aji via her email, markos, fineena or me) or post a comment below. to send a gift amount here via paypal (please be sure to put in the notes that it is for the secret santa gift) or send a check (kosmail me for the address of the artist) and post the amount in the comments. if you wish to make an anonymous gift, kosmail me and i'll add that to the comments. - and when the total is reached, then that necklace will be around kitsap's neck!
he needs help in filling the requests! We only have one week left! hard to believe, isn't it... what HAPPENED to this year?!?
that's where "secret santa" comes in!
this community - and it IS a "community" has, over the years, surprised and brought joy to many members who were the recipients of secret santa gifts! i know - i was given an absolutely beautiful portrait of my boy, mr tee, in december following his departure for the rainbow bridge in may. so many others on this site have felt the warmth and love that exists here - and, although we were late hearing santa's call, we are once again stepping up to fill in for this season!
so far, we have the following gifts still outstanding
kitsap river - edrie - petrified wood necklace $175 - 75 balance: $100
zentrainer - fineena scarf $ 86 balance: $ 46
remembrance - custom necklace $125 - $20 balance: $105
Aji has a diary coming up later today with an update on the totals needed to finish these secret santa gifts for our two quilters!
sara r - aji - art necklaces $500
winglion - aji - art necklace $180
spirit in life - marko the werelynx artwork $15-350 (waiting for update)
**ramara - wings garnet earrings $ COMPLETE!
**Ooooh - fineena - scarf $ 86 COMPLETE!
If you would like to add a cookie or glass of milk for an elf, the way this works is simple.
simply make a donation to the the artist who is the holder of the gift - add a note that it is for the person you'd like to play santa for - and we track the totals.... when one is done, we let you know!
if there is someone you'd like to nominate for a specific item, just let me know and i'll add them to the list - and we'll try for a big push this week to fill all those stockings in time for delivery for the holidays!
there must be elves ready to help fill! i know the hearts of this community are brighter when the elves are working hard! so, how about it? want to add to the stockings of these kossacks this year?
okay - this is the start of the push for Kitsap River and Rembrance's Secret Santa gifts!
Secret Santa heard Kitsap River when she admired this petrified wood necklace.
She messaged me that she was so sad when it disappeared (i pulled it that day for her) - she thought it had been sold! HA! little does she realize the long reach of Santa begins WAY before the holiday is near!
and, Remembrance was nominated for HER Secret Santa gift for all she does on this site and for the kids she helps (not to mention being an awesome mom and partner to our own Glen the Plumber! (HEY! why don't we do any Secret Santa's for men! Hmmmmmm
NEW!!! AJI is ON THE LIST of NICE!!! the bracelet she loves has been added and started at $535 and now we only need $290.
how about making these three wonderful kossacks happy!!!
Don't want to spoil the surprise for remembrance, so i'll post the picture when it is done - i'd like to give it to her next week when TLO is out at the barn for "christmas camp". looking forward to spending time with them both!
Well, Santa's Elves have raised almost half for Kitsap's necklace and we're off on the quest for Remembrance's necklace - one custom designed especially for her!
If you want to be a card-carrying elf, then join me below the swirly lightbulb!
We've only a few days to go until Christmas! (To show the seriousness of this situation, I am biting the bullet and using proper capitalization!)
With only a few days until Christmas, we still have some outstanding balances on our Secret Santas! (For that reason, I am enduring the discomfort of using CAP keys!)
Here is where we stand - and I'll update (or the other Santas can do so in the comments!)
Kitsap River: Petrified Necklace - $175 + s/h ($5.40) - balance left to raise is $80.40.
Remembrance: Necklace - $125 - balance left to raise is $105.40 (This one is a surprise - so no picture forthcoming - after it's paid for, I'll post it!) (Remembrance's surprise can morph into something better - if the elves can make the new balance $200! It IS worth it, trust me on this one! I'll post delivery pics if we make it before next week!)
[Kosmail edrie to donate to these two gifts or put your donation amount in the comments below.]
Sara R: Necklace by Aji - $350 - balance left to raise is $175 with a Match offer for $50 on the table!
Ann (winglion) - Necklace by Aji - $350 - with a balance left of $175 with a Match offer for $50 on the table!
[Kosmail Aji to donate to these two gifts or put your donation amount in the comments below.]
Spirit of Life wants something Werelynxy! - for a mug - it's only $15! (SURELY we can do THIS one! - for something bigger, a print or painting (up to $350)
[Kosmail Marko the Werelynx to donate to these two gifts or put your donation amount in the comments below.]
Zentrainer wants us to keep her warm with a scarf! - only $41 to go there!
[Kosmail Fineena to donate to these two gifts or put your donation amount in the comments below.]
AND, for our very own AJI, she is dreaming of a silver bracelet that Wings made but they can't afford to pull it - so we are doing it for her! I don't have the current update and balance, but I believe it is around $200 - I'll update when I get back from the barn!
AND, I still have an ORANGE discount at EdriesShop - if you see something you like, I'll send it out Monday (if you want it for Christmas, kosmail me and I can let you know how much it would be Express Mail).
Just use the coupon code "ORANGE" for the discount!
not for the presents we got, but for the presents we gave. my mom and dad every christmas would explain to my sister and i how there were children that wouldn't get any presents and how we could help santa.
you see, we didn't have a lot of money - it wasn't until i was a freshman in college that i realized how creative my parents were to give us what we needed. mom was a great cook - dad worked long hours - and they had a vision. that vision was of sending their daughters to college when girls didn't GO to college - boys went to college. girls got married, had babies and that was what they did (or they became teachers, nurses or secretaries).
to make that happen (the college thing), my parents learned how to live well on that proverbial shoestring while planning for the future. my mom taught sewing in her father's singer sewing shop before she became a full time mom who sewed for her kids. that's how dad first saw her in the window of that shop. he told his friend that one day, he was going to marry her! they hadn't even met yet.
as she always laughed and said, it took him three years to wear her down!
and, we WERE the best dressed kids in school! she was a genius at that singer!
so, as we grew up, part of our childhood was getting to play santa. we were asked to choose one of our toys to give to that child who was going to be missed. and we were asked to give one that was really nice - not some cast off that we no longer wanted.
come with me over the fold for these memories of mom and dad...
10:35 PM PT: update III
remembrance now has another $50 - leaving her balance at $100.40
9:57 PM PT: KITSAP RIVER COMPLETED!!!!
AJI's bracelet has now only $40 left plus s/h!
Remembrance's necklace has only $100.40
Sara r is holding at $125 plus s/h
Ann (winglion) is also $125 plus s/h
Spirit of Life - has $100 toward a print - needs more (will update tomorrow)
Kitsap River completed tonite!
ZENTRAINER"S scarf is covered!
Oooh has her scarf!
the marti - complete!
ramara - completed!
that means we only have a total of $350 plus the balance for spirit of life (hey! marko the werelynx - need a TOTAL!) to fill ALL these stockings!
yall can DO this! i'm SURE of it!
these are our outstanding secret santa recipients - we are working of special ways to acknowledge their participation and contribution on this site by giving something special to let them know how we feel about them.
what i'd like to do in this diary is to ask everyone to talk of their interactions with these special people and why they were chosen this year.
we have completed some of our secret santas - and if you'd like to talk about those who have been given this gift from the community, please join below in the comments and let's pay tribute to some special people!
follow below to see what is still outstanding and who is still on santa's list!
10:09 11:15 pm pst,
AJI's bracelet is now complete!
sara r and winglion are complete!
remembrance is now at
spirit of life has $115 now toward her secret santa!
Remembrance's necklace has only
$100.40 $80.40! NEW TOTAL: $60.40
Sara r is holding at
$125 $85 $35 plus s/h COMPLETE
Ann (winglion) is also
$85 $35 plus s/h COMPLETE
Kitsap River completed tonite!
ZENTRAINER"S scarf is covered!
Oooh has her scarf!
the marti - complete!
ramara - completed!
that means we only have a total of
$350 $270 $150 $60.40 plus the balance for spirit of life ($100?) (hey! marko the werelynx - need a TOTAL!) to fill ALL these stockings!
yall can DO this! i'm SURE of it!
yesterday's diary asked "why" these people have been singled out to be recipients of secret santa for 2013. today, we are looking toward the close and we've not yet fed the reindeer - they are ready to go but just need your help!
i hope you'll join us in making the spirits of these wonderful kossacks brighter!
if you'd like to be a part of this joyous sharing, please kosmail me and i'll tell you how and to whom to send your gift!
merry christmas, happy holidays, happy hanukkah, happy festivus, glorious solstice and more!
THE GIFT OF THE MAGI
by O. Henry
One dollar and eighty-seven cents. That was all. And sixty cents of it was in pennies. Pennies saved one and two at a time by bulldozing the grocer and the vegetable man and the butcher until one's cheeks burned with the silent imputation of parsimony that such close dealing implied. Three times Della counted it. One dollar and eighty- seven cents. And the next day would be Christmas.
There was clearly nothing to do but flop down on the shabby little couch and howl. So Della did it. Which instigates the moral reflection that life is made up of sobs, sniffles, and smiles, with sniffles predominating.
While the mistress of the home is gradually subsiding from the first stage to the second, take a look at the home. A furnished flat at $8 per week. It did not exactly beggar description, but it certainly had that word on the lookout for the mendicancy squad.
In the vestibule below was a letter-box into which no letter would go, and an electric button from which no mortal finger could coax a ring. Also appertaining thereunto was a card bearing the name "Mr. James Dillingham Young."
The "Dillingham" had been flung to the breeze during a former period of prosperity when its possessor was being paid $30 per week. Now, when the income was shrunk to $20, though, they were thinking seriously of contracting to a modest and unassuming D. But whenever Mr. James Dillingham Young came home and reached his flat above he was called "Jim" and greatly hugged by Mrs. James Dillingham Young, already introduced to you as Della. Which is all very good.
Della finished her cry and attended to her cheeks with the powder rag. She stood by the window and looked out dully at a gray cat walking a gray fence in a gray backyard. Tomorrow would be Christmas Day, and she had only $1.87 with which to buy Jim a present. She had been saving every penny she could for months, with this result. Twenty dollars a week doesn't go far. Expenses had been greater than she had calculated. They always are. Only $1.87 to buy a present for Jim. Her Jim. Many a happy hour she had spent planning for something nice for him. Something fine and rare and sterling--something just a little bit near to being worthy of the honor of being owned by Jim.
There was a pier-glass between the windows of the room. Perhaps you have seen a pier-glass in an $8 flat. A very thin and very agile person may, by observing his reflection in a rapid sequence of longitudinal strips, obtain a fairly accurate conception of his looks. Della, being slender, had mastered the art.
Suddenly she whirled from the window and stood before the glass. her eyes were shining brilliantly, but her face had lost its color within twenty seconds. Rapidly she pulled down her hair and let it fall to its full length.
Now, there were two possessions of the James Dillingham Youngs in which they both took a mighty pride. One was Jim's gold watch that had been his father's and his grandfather's. The other was Della's hair. Had the queen of Sheba lived in the flat across the airshaft, Della would have let her hair hang out the window some day to dry just to depreciate Her Majesty's jewels and gifts. Had King Solomon been the janitor, with all his treasures piled up in the basement, Jim would have pulled out his watch every time he passed, just to see him pluck at his beard from envy.
So now Della's beautiful hair fell about her rippling and shining like a cascade of brown waters. It reached below her knee and made itself almost a garment for her. And then she did it up again nervously and quickly. Once she faltered for a minute and stood still while a tear or two splashed on the worn red carpet.
On went her old brown jacket; on went her old brown hat. With a whirl of skirts and with the brilliant sparkle still in her eyes, she fluttered out the door and down the stairs to the street.
Where she stopped the sign read: "Mne. Sofronie. Hair Goods of All Kinds." One flight up Della ran, and collected herself, panting. Madame, large, too white, chilly, hardly looked the "Sofronie."
"Will you buy my hair?" asked Della.
"I buy hair," said Madame. "Take yer hat off and let's have a sight at the looks of it."
Down rippled the brown cascade.
"Twenty dollars," said Madame, lifting the mass with a practised hand.
"Give it to me quick," said Della.
Oh, and the next two hours tripped by on rosy wings. Forget the hashed metaphor. She was ransacking the stores for Jim's present.
She found it at last. It surely had been made for Jim and no one else. There was no other like it in any of the stores, and she had turned all of them inside out. It was a platinum fob chain simple and chaste in design, properly proclaiming its value by substance alone and not by meretricious ornamentation--as all good things should do. It was even worthy of The Watch. As soon as she saw it she knew that it must be Jim's. It was like him. Quietness and value--the description applied to both. Twenty-one dollars they took from her for it, and she hurried home with the 87 cents. With that chain on his watch Jim might be properly anxious about the time in any company. Grand as the watch was, he sometimes looked at it on the sly on account of the old leather strap that he used in place of a chain.
When Della reached home her intoxication gave way a little to prudence and reason. She got out her curling irons and lighted the gas and went to work repairing the ravages made by generosity added to love. Which is always a tremendous task, dear friends--a mammoth task.
Within forty minutes her head was covered with tiny, close-lying curls that made her look wonderfully like a truant schoolboy. She looked at her reflection in the mirror long, carefully, and critically.
"If Jim doesn't kill me," she said to herself, "before he takes a second look at me, he'll say I look like a Coney Island chorus girl. But what could I do--oh! what could I do with a dollar and eighty- seven cents?"
At 7 o'clock the coffee was made and the frying-pan was on the back of the stove hot and ready to cook the chops.
Jim was never late. Della doubled the fob chain in her hand and sat on the corner of the table near the door that he always entered. Then she heard his step on the stair away down on the first flight, and she turned white for just a moment. She had a habit for saying little silent prayer about the simplest everyday things, and now she whispered: "Please God, make him think I am still pretty."
The door opened and Jim stepped in and closed it. He looked thin and very serious. Poor fellow, he was only twenty-two--and to be burdened with a family! He needed a new overcoat and he was without gloves.
Jim stopped inside the door, as immovable as a setter at the scent of quail. His eyes were fixed upon Della, and there was an expression in them that she could not read, and it terrified her. It was not anger, nor surprise, nor disapproval, nor horror, nor any of the sentiments that she had been prepared for. He simply stared at her fixedly with that peculiar expression on his face.
Della wriggled off the table and went for him.
"Jim, darling," she cried, "don't look at me that way. I had my hair cut off and sold because I couldn't have lived through Christmas without giving you a present. It'll grow out again--you won't mind, will you? I just had to do it. My hair grows awfully fast. Say `Merry Christmas!' Jim, and let's be happy. You don't know what a nice-- what a beautiful, nice gift I've got for you."
"You've cut off your hair?" asked Jim, laboriously, as if he had not arrived at that patent fact yet even after the hardest mental labor.
"Cut it off and sold it," said Della. "Don't you like me just as well, anyhow? I'm me without my hair, ain't I?"
Jim looked about the room curiously.
"You say your hair is gone?" he said, with an air almost of idiocy.
"You needn't look for it," said Della. "It's sold, I tell you--sold and gone, too. It's Christmas Eve, boy. Be good to me, for it went for you. Maybe the hairs of my head were numbered," she went on with sudden serious sweetness, "but nobody could ever count my love for you. Shall I put the chops on, Jim?"
Out of his trance Jim seemed quickly to wake. He enfolded his Della. For ten seconds let us regard with discreet scrutiny some inconsequential object in the other direction. Eight dollars a week or a million a year--what is the difference? A mathematician or a wit would give you the wrong answer. The magi brought valuable gifts, but that was not among them. This dark assertion will be illuminated later on.
Jim drew a package from his overcoat pocket and threw it upon the table.
"Don't make any mistake, Dell," he said, "about me. I don't think there's anything in the way of a haircut or a shave or a shampoo that could make me like my girl any less. But if you'll unwrap that package you may see why you had me going a while at first."
White fingers and nimble tore at the string and paper. And then an ecstatic scream of joy; and then, alas! a quick feminine change to hysterical tears and wails, necessitating the immediate employment of all the comforting powers of the lord of the flat.
For there lay The Combs--the set of combs, side and back, that Della had worshipped long in a Broadway window. Beautiful combs, pure tortoise shell, with jewelled rims--just the shade to wear in the beautiful vanished hair. They were expensive combs, she knew, and her heart had simply craved and yearned over them without the least hope of possession. And now, they were hers, but the tresses that should have adorned the coveted adornments were gone.
But she hugged them to her bosom, and at length she was able to look up with dim eyes and a smile and say: "My hair grows so fast, Jim!"
And them Della leaped up like a little singed cat and cried, "Oh, oh!"
Jim had not yet seen his beautiful present. She held it out to him eagerly upon her open palm. The dull precious metal seemed to flash with a reflection of her bright and ardent spirit.
"Isn't it a dandy, Jim? I hunted all over town to find it. You'll have to look at the time a hundred times a day now. Give me your watch. I want to see how it looks on it."
Instead of obeying, Jim tumbled down on the couch and put his hands under the back of his head and smiled.
"Dell," said he, "let's put our Christmas presents away and keep 'em a while. They're too nice to use just at present. I sold the watch to get the money to buy your combs. And now suppose you put the chops on."
The magi, as you know, were wise men--wonderfully wise men--who brought gifts to the Babe in the manger. They invented the art of giving Christmas presents. Being wise, their gifts were no doubt wise ones, possibly bearing the privilege of exchange in case of duplication. And here I have lamely related to you the uneventful chronicle of two foolish children in a flat who most unwisely sacrificed for each other the greatest treasures of their house. But in a last word to the wise of these days let it be said that of all who give gifts these two were the wisest. O all who give and receive gifts, such as they are wisest. Everywhere they are wisest. They are the magi.
the final update for our secret santas now is as follows:
This is a confirmation that Secret Santa's sled touched down at 12:45 am pacific time - and every stocking has been filled!
for all the wonderful elves who helped guide his sleigh to their deserving recipients, go enjoy your eggnog and cookies and look for update diaries in the days to come as the kossacks who don't yet know what their surprise will be get to see their gifts!
THANK YOU ALL!
MERRY CHRISTMAS! HAPPY SOLSTICE! HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!
i love you all!
why you never leave a sammy puppy to his own devices...
just had to share!
my macbook pro decided to go chips up (or down) one week before my apple care expired.
they replaced the logic board (try da mutha), the hard drive, the track pad, the fan and a week later the keyboard.
i asked why not replace the entire computer because so much was failing.
the answer i got was all that was left was the screen - and i practically had a new computer! they even upgraded my hard drive from 316gb to 499gb.
more below the twisted wires...
it is a bitter sweet day for me since after her death, i lost my only sister, as well.
no, she didn't die.
she DID kill the relationship between us, though, when she submitted a fake will, probated the will without telling me, took everything that mom and dad had worked for that was meant for both their daughters.
and, no, i'm not allowing her to "get away with it".
it isn't about the money - although she has left me totally impoverished - even as she borrowed the last funds i had while claiming she couldn't pay her mortgage (and EVEN after i found out she lives on a retirement of over $65,000 per year).
but that isn't the reason i have taken this to the courts - it is about living by the principles our parents taught us - do not lie, do not steal. your word is your bond.
unfortunately, my own "word" is now shakey as i cannot meet obligations that should normally not be a problem. and, no, this isn't a diary asking for funds - it is about an important lesson we all need - i especially needed...
the world's worst video game (or so it is rumored) is atari's game "E.T. - the extra-terrestrial".
the game was SO bad that atari reportedly took the games out to a dump in
arizona new mexico (*thanks, pjevans) and buried them in the old alamogordo landfill. for years, this rumor has been circulating - and, until now, it was just that - a rumor.
but an intrepid group of video archaeologists decided the truth must be unearthed! were there REALLY extra-terrestrials buried in
arizona new mexico? did area 51 truly exist, but only in arizona new mexico?
follow me below the orange space ship for the truth finally has landed!
UPDATE: while negotiations were underway to resolve this - the content of this diary was removed.
the negotiations failed. the diary is now restored in full, complete with the discussion at that time. i will be publishing much more information on this topic in the coming days!
you may note that many of the links no longer work as sanderbeck attempted to scrub the internet of all traces of her comments and negative comments - INCLUDING trying to force dailykos to remove this specific diary. i removed it as an attempt to help the negotiators resolve this situation with the caveat that should those negotiations fail, the diary would be restored.
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i am livid! another of these stories has crossed the wire and it is time for all of us to stand up and stop what is happening in the name of rescue.
UPDATE: 4/28 - 1:05pm: here is more information on this situation. IF piper is not returned to the rightful owner, veronica covatch, by the end of day, i will be doing a more comprehensive diary on this situation and the rescue in question. for the current information and discussion (which is huge in the dog world), please go to this facebook page set up to bring piper home!
a purebred Sheltie being babysat while the owner was at the Nationals got out of that friend's yard and was picked up by animal control. three days later, piper (the pup) was snatched up by one of the "purebred rescue" groups, Central Ohio Sheltie Rescue. despite being given ample proof of the dog's owners, the Central Ohio Sheltie Rescue (who collected the dog from Franklin Shelter after three days) has refused to return the sheltie. the pup was picked up and held three days, the rescue grabbed her on the fourth, was contacted by the owners on the fifth day. then, this ugly story takes a very unhappy turn.
i'm not condemning all rescue organizations here - some are sincere and work hard to place dogs in danger. what i AM condemning are these so-called "rescues" that have close ties to shelters to go in and grab any purebred dog that is found, will quickly change the name of the dog (even if they are able to trace the owner) and "sell" that dog for a hefty "adoption" fee (which, btw, is illegal under the terms of the 501(c)3's they operate within).
this particular case is very disturbing - the dog's owners have provided ample proof to this rescue - however, this self-appointed "dog rescuer" has "decided" the best place for the dog is where it is!
i am posting the response visible on their facebook page for all to read (please hold onto your hats, it is absolutely UNFRIGGINBELIEVEABLE!!!)
Central Ohio Sheltie Rescue
5 hours ago
On Monday of last week we picked up a dog from the shelter that no one claimed after it had served it's legal three days stray hold (thank God it wasn't killed). We vetted it and placed into foster care as we normally do. Please remember by law a dog that is unlicensed even if it has an UNREGISTERED microchip only has to be held for three days and can be placed or euthanized after that.
Suddenly on Tuesday (Fifth day...we picked up on fourth) I had six people trying to claim a particular black and white dog that they heard we had. I called each person and told them the same thing....I asked each person to allow me the time to discern what was going on and that IF this was the dog in question, it was safe and well cared for. I told each person this would not be a priority since the dog was now safe and I was caring for a friend with cancer in addition to working daily but due diligence would be given to each and every claim. With six in question...this does take time.
By Thursday afternoon, I had volunteers and veterinarians receiving threats, friends being called and harrassed, threats of withholding donations, email slander campaigns going on, facebook slamming, lies and childish behavior with demands being posted to facebook pages. My requests for time to discern truth from fiction was ignored and our lives were made into a living hell with the constant barrage. I requested on Tuesday that it be halted...I was ignored.
Our volunteers work hard to save these lives and such behaviors of others that do not even know what rescue is about is appalling. How many of you have sat in the rain on a cold morning in a lawn chair in front of a shelter waiting on it to open just to save a dog's life? How many of you even have in your contracts to return the dog to you?
I sat quietly and watched as these behaviors, harrassment and threats continued to escalate. I have no reason to defend a thing. It quickly became apparent that the best place for any dog...whether the one in question was indeed the one they wanted or not...was to stay right where it was. Here this dog will be adopted into a loving, safe, calm environment permanently and not into three homes in one year.
We exercised our legal and moral right to uphold our promises to every dog that comes into our care to continue our care of it for life. Each post, each private message, each email, each falsehood and cry for mislead actions (and so much of the half truths being shared) only solidifies that this was the correct decision for the dog that legally resides with us.
I do not have to explain a thing...I do not choose to give fuel to your fires by going into any further detail at this time. Understand that we are fully within our legal rights and keep the best interest of this and every dog dog that comes into our care in mind. I asked for a amicable solution but was hit with more childish behavior and threats to our volunteers. The line was crossed.
Please go ahead and withhold or "unfriend" as you please...we would rather you do that if you truly don't have the best interest of these dogs in mind anyway. We will continue to help the shelties in need that come along and withholding your support financially will only hurt the dogs in need. If you can live with that, do what you must.
Do not explain a thing: your enemies won't believe you and your friends won't require it!
8:35 PM PT: this is a statement made approx. 8pm tonite (pst) by piper's owner, veronica covatch on her facebook page (linked at the top):
for more in this story, please come below the fold...
Veronica Wagner Covatch
To clear the record yet again Bethany Watkins, Piper was being cared for by a friend who told Penny I owned the dog, her father had a heart attack and Piper and her two dogs got out of a fenced yard over Easter weekend. I did not know anything about this situation until 2:32 pm on Tuesday and immediately contacted the shelter and rescue and sent proof of ownership as did the co-owner! Penny refused to respond and when she finally did she threatened me with her lawyer (I have the e-mails) and said with all the campaigning she was being tired out and would not make this a priority. She NEVER told me my dog was safe. The shelter did find out who inserted the microchip (a vet) but never bothered to check further...call the vet that inserted it! Instead the turned the dog over to the rescue. Piper was born here...I have her dam. I can prove that through DNA. She has not lived in 3 places in the past year! Penny is not stating the facts at ll. I have nothing to hide. I did threatened to sue her vet IF they spayed my dog! Not because she will be bred...she's sterile, but because research now shows a dog is healthier when left intact! I do NOT work so m home with my dogs every day/all day. They live free in my house, sleep on my bed every night, and have been better cared for than most children! I have a dog door so they can come in and out at will to three fenced acres. I have a call in to a lawyer and the police have been called also. Why would I do all this if I didn't love my dog? We even sent vet records to Penny only to receive NO response. A rescue is suppose to rescue abused and neglected pets NOT steal someone's well cared for and loved pet!
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one of our kos katalogue people has hit a rough place - she has lost her place and her woozles are now being boarded until she gets another.
fineena opened her home to me when i went home to n.c. last fall - she handed me her car keys and said "go where you need!" - her generosity helped make a horrible time easier! her precious dogs were there, too, lending support when i needed it most.
now she needs that support from us - we can do this to help her get the apartment she's found - one without extra four footed unwelcomed housemates... rats.
fortunately, soon i'll be in a place to pay back this community - as have others. please come beneath the squiggle and see why this is so important!
piper is still being held by penny sanderbeck and the central ohio sheltie rescue.
the cosr/sanderbeck website has reappeared this weekend with this public statement from her attorney - i am posting screenshots along with a link.
let me make two things perfectly clear: sanderbeck is the founder and director of a public 501c3 non-profit that is incorporated in the state of ohio she operates COSR as a registerd dog rescue in franklin county, columbus, ohio.
secondly, the letter that is shown below the fold is published under the title "PUBLIC STATEMENT" and has instructions on how future attempts to recover piper must follow. i am NOT posting copyrighted material as this letter and the website make it CLEAR that the letter is a "PUBLIC STATEMENT" addressing the issue of piper, the dog, in the possession still of central ohio sheltie rescue, inc (and penny sanderbeck, as director).
i welcome your reaction to that letter shown below the fold and i am holding off publishing the diary regarding this situation scheduled for today - instead, i am publishing the "public statement" released by central ohio sheltie rescue and written by penny sanderbeck's lawyer.
on april 27th, i wrote of a very disturbing situation that is still ongoing, btw.
a "child" was lost - then found and now that "child" with four legs is at the center of a HUGE furor.
piper, a 7 yr old champion shetland sheepdog, got loose during a stay at a friend's house during easter weekend while her owner was at the sheltie nationals in st louis, missouri.
a shelter in a different county from where she was being cared for, franklin county, ended up with piper.
piper was microchipped and the contact number was recorded and called by the franklin county in possession of piper... but no one answered - after all, it was the weekend of a major holiday. the shelter never called the contact information again (all confirmed on the franklin county shelter intake sheet showing ONE attempted call on friday afternoon of easter weekend with no followup call made again).
THIS is piper - Ch. Legacies Pipe Dream
and here she is with her friends!
she's the delicate thing in the middle!
monday morning, piper WITH the microchip information recorded on the release form from the shelter) was turned over to central ohio sheltie rescue run by and controlled by one individual, penny g. sanderbeck sanderbeck describes COSR (central ohio sheltie rescue, inc) as follows on zoominfo (cached page, as her website is now deleted along with her facebook profile):
As part of our dedication to the welfare of dogs, Central Ohio Sheltie Rescue frequently assists with the recovery of lost dogs throughout the nation. Through our 100+ recoveries, we have become very experienced and knowledgeable regarding successful lost dog recovery. We provide guidance and assistance for lost dog searches for all dog breeds, and we have a strong network to share lost dog information. Have a lost dog and need help, Call us (614) 578-0921please make special note of this paragraph above!
Our experience with lost dog recovery has allowed us to accumulate several helpful procedures to aid dog recovery. Our best resource on lost dog recovery is our �How to Find a Lost Sheltie� booklet. The booklets are available for $2.00 (which is a considerable value for the piece of mind and information) by emailing CenOHSheltieResc@aol.com. Over 2,000 of the booklets have been distributed to dog owners all over the world, and we receive numerous emails monthly praising the advice and tips in the booklet.
1. Do not hesitate to contact search volunteers. The first couple hours of a dog search are critical and by waiting just one hour, the dog could easily travel several miles. As soon as the dog is discovered missing, contact volunteers to assist with the search. Our experience has proven that the time it takes for the owner to seek assistance is one of the largest determinates of when/if the dog is recovered.
2. Search the immediate area on foot and in vehicle.
3. Hang big signs�.not flyers�.in the area dog was last seen. Use color photos! Make them large enough to read from the car (at least 16 x 22) � if you can�t see them, no one else can either. Use a cell number or other number that someone can respond from immediately when called. Note the size of the posters above. The posters must be large enough to be seen from far distances. Weatherproof Signs or change them after rainstorms.
4. Hand out flyers to everyone you see and ask businesses in the area to hang flyers in windows. People take a stronger interest in locating your dog when they are given a flyer and are more likely to contact you.
5. Run an ad in the local papers. Give a detailed description of your dog and offer a reward.
6. Call the dog warden, police, shelters, humane societies, vets in the area, emergency veterinarians, dead animal pick up or Dept. of Transportation, local Lost-a-Pet volunteers (Mary Jane Stockdale for Franklin County 614-471-7397), breed rescues and mixed breed rescues. Post your information to local lost-a-pet web sites (such as Pet FBI at www.petfbi.com).
7. Visit the shelters (remember the private ones as well) every other day. Most shelters only hold dogs for three days before the dogs can be adopted by the public. Don�t rely on someone else to recognize your dog. Your description of the dog is generally hard to match, and animal shelter employees receive numerous demands for their time daily.
8. Search any wooded areas, creek beds, culverts, parks, etc. where the dog could be hiding. Understand that your dog is scared and confused, and he may not respond to you. Be prepared to use food, safe animal traps, slip leashes, and fencing to capture your dog.
9. Expand your coverage area by one mile per day in all directions for every day the pet is gone. Move signs, hand out flyers, make calls, etc.
Be DILIGENT�the dog�s life may depend on it.
Contact CenOhSheltieResc@aol.com� for more information, consultation, or to order �How to Find a Lost Sheltie� booklet .
Lost/Found Dog Listings on Our Site
We will list lost and found dogs (regardless of breed) from the Central Ohio area on our website to help get the dogs back where they belong. Our policy is to assist you in your search, not do it for you. So that the listings remain current and meaningful, we will request an update every 2 weeks or the listing will be removed. To request a listing or update a current one, please e-mail request/update information to email@example.com . Any listings placed on our site will be at the sole discretion of our board of directors.
Click Here to View Lost & Found Listings
As part of our dedication to the welfare of dogs, Central Ohio Sheltie Rescue frequently assists with the recovery of lost dogs throughout the nation. Through our 100+ recoveries, we have become very experienced and knowledgeable regarding successful lost dog recovery. We provide guidance and assistance for lost dog searches for all dog breeds, and we have a strong network to share lost dog information. Have a lost dog and need help, Call us (614) 578-0921
the following day, the family from whose yard piper got loose AND the owner (who had just returned to town) along with others searching on the owner's behalf FINALLY found where piper was located and called sanderbeck expecting to pick piper up for a joyful reunion.
what has happened next is difficult to comprehend on any level.
please come below to see what happened and is STILL ongoing...
am on the phone with fineena and she has moved into her new HOME! she and da pups are enjoying their new digs!
she is asking me to thank you and said she would do so on her own except that she spilled a cuppa coffee onto her computer keyboard and now it speaks alien!
this is AWESOME!
will update more when i get more news!
in the meantime, she says a huge THANK YOU, KOSSACKS!!!
the pups are running gleefully up and down the fence in their new summer doo's - and when we get pictures, i'll post them....
you DID it - ALL of you! i love the great orange satan!
PICTURES here! below the orange fence!
10:24pm THANK you all! my etsy shop will live another day! and i've got enough to make it through the coming days! <3 you are all the BEST!
i owe $14 in fees and if it isn't paid today, my account will be suspended.
so, if you were thinking of anything, do it today while you can - then i can pay the fees and keep it going.
here's the link -EdriesShop on Etsy
i'll delete this diary after it is either "saved" or gone...
thanks, folks - a little tight here right now... ;)
this is a very quick diary to let all the woozle and pootie lovers know that piper is still being kept from her family - the negotiations have moved from concerned rescue groups trying to help resolve this to negotiations between lawyers.
it is ongoing...
if you would like to help, today starts an auction of all things dog to help raise funds for the piper's legal team - why? because this could be ANY of us who owns and loves a pet!
the facebook page "BRING PIPER HOME" is where items are being listed for auction starting today - and there is also a gofundme page, as well.
any funds NOT used when piper comes home will be put into a trust to assist any dog/cat owner who faces this horrible situation in the future - NO monies are going for personal enrichment!
here are the links:
AUCTION: BRING PIPER HOME
here is thePIPER BRING ME HOME GOFUNDME page if you'd like to help here, too!
10:24 AM PT: just realized i should put the auction information at the top since there are less than two days left.
you might remember my original diary "ever had pup lost or stolen?" about a little sheltie who escaped the yard where she was visiting over easter. she was picked up in columbus, ohio, taken to the local shelter then turned over to a local "rescue" (central ohio sheltie rescue".
when the owner, who was at the sheltie nationals, found out, she immediately called and was given the phone number for penny sanderbeck's "rescue" - she called in less than 24 hrs of sanderbeck taking Piper thinking how wonderful her little girl was safe and that she would be picking her up the same day to bring her home.
for some inexplicable reason, despite proof of ownership being provided (INCLUDING the confirmation by the implanted microchip that is listed both on the shelter intake form AND the release form to central ohio sheltie rescue, penny sanderbeck has and is refusing to return this champion show dog.
NO one can understand why! even the national shetland sheepdog association has tried to get sanderbeck to return this dog - but she refuses.
so - it has now moved into the courts. the owner, veronica covatch, loves her dog and wants her home. sanderbeck won't budge. NONE of this makes sense - not one single reason has been given for keeping this dog other than people on the internet said mean things about sanderbeck so she won't return the dog.
the little girl in the middle is piper - she NEEDS your help!!!
why should you care and why should you help? come across the squiggle and i'll explain...
I received the following press release today from the attorney for Veronica Covatch, the owner of a Champion Shetland Sheepdog, Legacies Pipe Dream. Piper (her family name) is being held hostage by Penny Sanderbeck, the director of Central Ohio Sheltie Rescue, Inc. This press release was sent to me because of the prior interest on this site when the story of Piper first came under scrutiny. (when you do a google search on Penny Sanderbeck and Central Ohio Sheltie Rescue, the dk posts are the first to appear.)
Press ReleaseWhat SHOULD have been a happy story of a lost dog found and reunited with her owners has turned into a battle followed closely by pet owners all across the nation. As first written about in these diaries, (ever had a pup lost or stolen), Piper's story continues... and when the wisdom of solomon is not enough), the story seemed to be a simple dispute over who really “owned” this champion shetland sheepdog, Legacies Pipe Dream (Piper). The debate seemed clear and with the stated purpose of Penny Sanderbeck and Central Ohio Sheltie Rescue, Inc as "to reunite lost dogs with their owners" where ever possible (indeed, the rescue was founded over the return of a lost sheltie to his owner), the outcome seemed simple. Veronica Covatch would get her dog back safe and sound!
Rescue Holds Pup Hostage
A companion animal is being held hostage. Central Ohio Sheltie Rescue and its director
Penny Sanderbeck refuses to return lost dog to rightful owner! On July 28, 2014 Veronica
Covatch filed a Complaint for Replevin and Conversion action in the Franklin County Municipal Court, in Columbus Ohio, against COSR seeking the return of her beloved dog known as Piper. Case Number 2014-CVF-024571. Even though the rescue had claimed that part of its mission is to reunite dogs with their owners and even though many documents, photos, and microchip identification has been supplied to COSR, legal action was filed after the rescue rejected numerous pleas to reunite Piper with her rightful owner. Owner, Vernoica Covatch and her supporters believe that the COSR refusal is due to the fact that Piper is not only a healthy loved companion but also a valuable AKC champion show dog. They feel that the director’s own interest may have something to do with the Central Ohio Sheltie Rescue refusing to reunite Veronica with her beloved companion. She hopes that the court filings will Bring Piper Home.
Cohen Law Offices
Lloyd D. Cohen
Attorney at Law
824 South High Street
Columbus, Ohio 43206
Phone: (614) 444-4211 Email: firstname.lastname@example.org
Photo and comment is from the internet fund raising site www.gofundme.com/Bring-Piper-Home, saying,
Piper is the reason.... we will continue on.... she is not home yet, and we will not stop until she is. Thank you ALL.
Piper’s Owner Veronica Wagner Covatch, 1589 Motten Road, Punxsutawney, PA (814) 938-4091
Piper’s Co-Owner, Michelle Wilson, 70 W Chester Street, Apt C., Norwalk, Ohio (419) 681-4891
Central Ohio Sheltie Rescue, director Penny G. Sanderbeck, HQ located at 2266 Majestic Place, Columbus, Ohio 43232 (614) 578-0921
However, that is far from what is happening - and now, this issue has moved beyond one single dog into a crusade to help Veronica Covatch recover the pup she bred, loves and who sleeps in her bed with her. That bed has been empty for over three months now and the only resolution to this sad situation will be in a Court of Law!
Please come below the fold to see more information on why this is so important to ALL of us and what is now involved in the recovery of Ms. Covatch's beloved Piper.
These were the words of a son who just lost his mother - and he was at a loss for how to say how he felt...
Adam Meredith continued... "... I don't know." As he struggled to try to explain the last days of his mom's life, her losing her battle to cancer in such a very short time from knowing to dying, he continued, "She [Sanderbeck] took something from me... and out of my karma and my soul, I wanted to do something for my momma, so I let her say goodbye to her - I feel I did the right thing for my mom and at the end of the day, it is all about my mom and not me..."
After a pause, Adam continued, "This is about proving this woman is a bad woman and it's time for justice to prevail."
This author came to this story during the diaries I've been writing about Piper, the Champion Sheltie being held hostage by Penny Sanderbeck/Central Ohio Sheltie Rescue.
From the first diary about Ch. Legacies Pipe Dream, Piper, owned by Veronica Covatch, this story has taken such sad and disturbing twists with the story of Piper and the Meredith family merging into much bigger ones yet to be resolved for either family. Covatch and Piper are currently winding through Civil Court while the Merediths have yet to have their case brought before the Court, be it civil or criminal. What is strange is how the players in these two very different situations overlap and intertwine in a manner that causes so much grief.
On July 12, via private message, Arron Meredith reached out on Dailykos after this diary appeared on July 11, piper still needs your Help - and so do ALL dogs who fall into the abyss
During the following weeks, I had the opportunity to interview both Arron and Adam to learn more about Sanderbeck, the Meredith's tragedy, as well as finding some of the missing pieces in the Piper story.
What happened to bring so much pain and sorrow into the sadness already born of losing their mother. How did the little dog Piper become entangled into the lives of the extended family of Cheryl Meredith. Who could be so callous to cause such hurt to both the Merediths and to Veronica Covatch and all those who are following these disfunctional situations. And how does this interweave with the lost Champion Sheltie called Piper who is still missing after more than four months!
The Meredith's story is of two young men who lost their mother far too soon while someone was there reaching into darkness to steal and commit acts that caused unbearable pain and anguish during that time of great loss. That same person who so cruelly abused the trust of a dying woman and her family also ensared Veronica Covatch and her dog, Piper, into the same web of deceit. This is a story that connects through twists and turns a family's loss of a loved parent to one lost sheltie whose mom is desperately trying to bring her dog home. This, however, is not JUST the actions of one person, for the same names keep appearing across the police reports and documentation of BOTH stories - showing a much wider conspiracy that continues to bring grief and suffering without reason - it is here, the question remains: why?
Please come beneath the fold - and share the sorrow and sadness - for this can and does happen more often than we want to believe. This is one snapshot in time where lives cross and stories mingle to show that evil spreads - and envelopes all who are pulled into the vortex.
The Case over Champion Show Dog, Legacies Pipe Dream (Piper) is now set for a Pre-Trial Hearing on Oct. 24, 2014 in Columbus, Ohio. For those of you missed the first diary about Piper, here is the link to "Ever had a pup lost or stolen? BEWARE of "rescue" groups".
When Champion Legacies Pipe Dream (Piper) escaped from of the fenced yard in Columbus, Ohio on April 17, 2014 (Easter weekend) while staying with a caretaker, Veronica Covatch (her breeder and co-owner) was at the American Shetland Sheepdog Club's National Specialty Show at Purina Farms in Missouri. Piper was picked up by the Franklin County Animal Shelter and subsequently turned over to Penny Sanderbeck, the director of Central Ohio Sheltie Rescue (COSR) before her caretakers or owners could locate her. Less than 24 hours after Piper landed at the COSR, Covatch called Penny Sanderbeck to reclaim her dog. Covatch provided Sanderbeck with Piper's AKC Registration and numerous other forms of identification plus supplying Piper’s Microchip information (which was also listed on both the Shelter intake form and on the transfer paperwork to COSR), but Sanderbeck refused to return Piper claiming not to know who the "real" owner was. Covatch offered to provide (at her own expense) DNA testing of the Dam and Sire and of Piper to prove that Piper was, indeed, her dog. Sanderbeck refused to respond and refused to return Piper. Negotiation attempts between the National Sheltie Rescue Network (represented by Jim Melton) and Sanderbeck/COSR failed to convince Sanderbeck to return Piper to her owners, resulting in the National Sheltie Rescue Network and the American Shetland Sheepdog Association severing ties with COSR/Sanderbeck.
Over the next weeks, when asked for proof by COSR/Sanderbeck's attorney, John Bell, Covatch provided Proof of Ownership in the form of AKC registration, Vet Records, Microchip information and more through her attorney. Piper still was not returned.
Please join me over the fold to see where this case is so important, where it is headed and why - especially as this affects every single pet owner who might ever have a pet lost or stolen!
no text needed! WHOOO HOOOOOO!!!